Kisah Nenek 51 Tahun jadi Ibu Pengganti Kini Sudah Melahirkan Cucunya Sendiri

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Fimela.com, Jakarta Kasih ibu sepanjang masa memang benar adanya. Seorang ibu rela melakukan apapun demi kebahagiaan anaknya. Termasuk memberikan anak bagi putrinya dan mewujudkan impian sang putri menjadi orang ibu.

Hal ini dilakukan Julie Loving asal Chicago yang melahirkan cucu pertamanya bernama Briar Juliette Lockwood. Putrinya, Breanna, mengalami kesulitan untuk mendapatkan anak setelah menikah dengan Aaron.

Breanne kerap mengunggah cerita perjuangannya untuk bisa hamil dan mendapat keturunan dari sang suami. Breanna dan sang suami telah mencoba berbagai cara untuk hamil.

Salah satunya menjalani tujuh prosedur pembedahan sebagai upaya pembuaha in-vitro. Namun, Breanna mengalami dua kali keguguran dan satu kali kehamilan ektopik. Dokter pun akhirnya menyarankan Breanna untuk mencari ibu pengganti.

Mewujudkan mimpi sang anak untuk jadi ibu

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⁣ A lot of new followers here! ⁣ Quick recap! ⁣ ⁣ My name is Breanna and my husband here is Aaron! In the middle is my sweet mama who’s 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐫! ⁣ ⁣ We are over the moon excited, but it took a long hard road to get here. After many many years of infertility and loss, we had our doctor come to us and say that ultimately my uterus was incapable of growing a child. ⁣ ⁣ On our path to become parents, I had a few miscarriages, and one that required a D&C (procedure to remove pregnancy) and I developed a condition called Ashermans Syndrome. Ashermans Syndrome is where bands of scar tissue form inside your uterus. Most commonly from a D&C procedure. Google will tell you it’s rare, but that’s not true. It mostly goes undiagnosed. I had no idea this could happen prior to going in to the operating room that day, and I am still devastated by it. ⁣ ⁣ My mama came to me multiple times offering to carry for us. My response? I laughed. “you crazy!?” lol... I did not think that was even possible. My mom, Julie, is 51 years old and had already been through menopause! But she was persistent. One thing about my mom is when she sets her mind to something, she goes for it. She’s a hardcore athlete, who’s completed multiple Boston marathons and super into heath and fitness. She sets a goal and she goes for it. ⁣ ⁣ Since we already had been through IVF, and my husband and I had no issues creating embryos with my egg and his sperm. Half the work was done. Our embryos were frozen already waiting for us. Once our fertility doctor was on board, he prepared my moms body to carry, taking her out of menopause through hormone therapy, and the rest fell into place. ⁣ ⁣ Julie is 36 weeks with our baby girl! Her first grandchild! This has been the wildest ride of our lives. We are so grateful for my mom and that we were given this opportunity ... I don’t think there’s ever been a morning I don’t wake up and pinch myself. ⁣ ⁣ Thanks for joining us on this adventure! We love hearing how far this story has reached, comment below where you’re from ♥⁣ ⁣ 📸: @oatsandhoneyphotography

A post shared by Breanna Lockwood (@ivf.surrogacy.diary) on Oct 19, 2020 at 8:40am PDT

Mengetahui bahwa sang putri membutuhkan ibu pengganti, Loving langsung menawarkan diri. Sempat permintaan Loving ditolak. Breanna khawatir karena usia sang ibu tidak lagi muda.

Setelah berkonsultasi dengan dokter, Loving memiliki kondisi yang cukup baik untuk menerima kehamilan. Hingga akhirnya Loving menjalani proses transfer embrio dan mengandung anak dari putri dan menantunya.

Masa kehamilan berjalan cukup lancar hingga akhirnya Loving harus segera melahirkan 10 hari lebih awal. Hal ini dikarenakan sang bayi kesulitan dengan tali pusat dan harus segera dilahirkan melalui operasi caesar.

“Pengorbanan yang dia lakukan untuk membawa sepotong kecil surga ini ke dunia kita membuat saya takjub. Memeluk putriku dalam pelukan membuat hatiku meledak." ucap Breanna di akun instagramnya.

Dengan kelahiran putrinya, Breanna bisa merasakan bagaimana menjadi seorang ibu. Ia akan melakukan apapun yang diperlukan anaknya, sama seperti sang ibu yang melakukan apapun untuk dirinya.

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